Welcome.
Hi there, I’m Brian.
I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist working in the San Francisco Bay Area. I am currently seeing individuals and couples. In addition to traditional therapy, I also offer KAP and EMDR.
There comes a moment for each of us where we struggle to make sense of where to go next.
Some part of us knows that life should be different. We long for something else and we don’t know how to get it. It could be more peace with or within our bodies. Maybe it’s resolution with our families or deeper relationship with our partners. Or we’re trying to figure out how to be less alone with our grief and pain.
We too often receive the message that what we feel is too much. We come to believe that what makes us different, makes us a burden, and that we should deal with it on our own.
But to need help is human.
We are not broken for our suffering. What we feel does not need fixing. I believe that our hurts are signal flares from some deeper, more intact self, which light the way to a better relationship with the world around us. Therapy is the practice of learning how to follow those signals with someone else walking beside you.
About Me
We heal in the presence of other humans. I’m a human too, it turns out, and my humanity will be in the room with us.
I am a therapist. I am also a partner, a friend, a writer, a swimmer, and a lover of queer dancefloors and music. I am a gardener, a UC-trained California Naturalist, and a passionate ecologist. To inform our work, I will call on my experience as a gay man who has grappled with unlocking his own life force and on my decade-long relationship with chronic pain. I am kink-, gender-, and poly-affirming.
I believe that the body and what we feel in the present moment carry some of the most important information for our work. I also know that the history and health of the land we live on has so much to teach us about how to heal. I am a white cis man living on unceded Ohlone land. Part of my own journey toward wholeness involves consciousness of the ways that I embody forces that routinely rob people of their lives, loved ones, and land. We don't heal in isolation; we heal as a societal body. If our healing comes at the expense of folx on the margins, it is not true healing.
I look forward to meeting you and starting down a shared road.
Change can be difficult.
Here are some of the tools and belief systems that I pull on to help my clients with the tough process of transformation.
We’re individuals, and we also live nested within big and impactful systems: families, communities, societies, and ecosystems. Each of those systems go through cycles of creation, evolution, and destruction — and so do we.
Ecosystems of Change
We'll work on a tangible level with the nervous system, using somatic practices like EMDR. But pain that shows up in the here and now has roots in the deep past. To expand your capacity to listen to what your body already knows, we'll also look backward, to your family and your ancestry.
Trauma & the Body
Healing is about bringing us back into relationship with others. The therapy room is a testing ground for you to learn to set boundaries, state needs, and nourish yourself.
Relationship & Community
Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy can be effective at treating experiences of stuckness like depression, anxiety, and chronic pain. With my medical partners at Journey Clinical, we can explore whether KAP makes sense as a companion to psychotherapy.
Psychedelic Therapy & Integration
Who I See
I welcome you to reach out if you think we might be a good fit.
Folx looking for support in the emergence of their LGBTQ+ identity
Folx looking to try out Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy and make sense of other psychedelic experiences
Couples looking to reconnect to themselves and each other
Folx trying to make sense of where their healing fits in the grand scheme of a rapidly changing, unjust society
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